Marriage is not all about getting to stay in a house, sleep in the same room on the same person with the man or woman you love... It is about the changes and things that you have to built, to surround yourself that makes the whole idea of Marriage a unique thing in you live. It should not be seen as a one day thing, since it takes weeks to get everything in order for the final day, the day of the memorious wedding. It is not about upholding traditions. It is more to knowing about where you come from, and what and whom surrounds you that makes you who you are till the present days.